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Club Invitations

It is very important to us--and to you as a future member--that we maintain the integrity and privacy of our club, every member must go through a screening process.

The first step in this process is to use our online form (couples, singles). As we understand that your privacy is important to you, a Bluegrass Secrets representative will call you back using the utmost discretion.

During this phone call, the BGS representative will want to speak to both you and your partner. Some basic information will be gathered during this interview, including your interest in the club and your involvement in the lifestyle. The representative can answer most of your questions at that time and will tell you a little more about the club.

If you're still interested in attending a party at BGS, after verifying that both you and your partner are aware of the nature of the club, a reservation will be made for you on the Friday or Saturday night that you wish to attend. After you've made your reservation, you will be given directions to the club.

When you arrive, you will give your first names to the staff member at the door. You will be greeted by one of our staff members and given a personal tour of the facilities at that time. During this tour, you may ask any questions you may have. Don't worry about sounding silly or being nervous, the staff members at Bluegrass Secrets were once new and nervous too. Don't feel embarrassed to ask any questions.

If you decide to join after the tour, you will be asked to read and sign the membership agreement. Once you've done this, our staff member will introduce you to some members of our Welcome Committee and you will be on your way.

You will find that the club has a very low-pressure atmosphere. Both long time members of the lifestyle and those who are merely curious about it will feel comfortable. Each couple is free to become as involved or uninvolved as they want. Everyone understands that people have different levels of comfort. If you just want to sit by yourselves and "people watch" or get out on the dance floor and be the star, you are welcome to do that. If someone sits down at your table with you or wants to dance with you, you can do whatever makes you feel comfortable. It is important to remember, that the overriding principle is always "no means no."

Remember that everyone you see at the club was new there, like you. The sooner you speak to other couples, the sooner you will get to know people and the sooner they will get to know you. If you feel shy or awkward about just walking up to someone you'd like to meet, the staff or Welcome Committee members are always happy to make introductions.

Bluegrass Secrets is designed for committed and married couples. If you wish to bring friends that are not on the invitation list with you, they must first follow the steps for being invited.  Members are not allowed to bring un-screened guest to the club.