It is very important to us--and to you as a future
member--that we maintain the integrity and privacy of our club,
every member must go through a screening process.
The first step in this process is to use our online form (couples, singles).
As we understand that your privacy is
important to you, a Bluegrass Secrets representative will call
you back using the utmost discretion.
During this phone call, the BGS representative will want to
speak to both you and your partner. Some basic information will
be gathered during this interview, including your interest in
the club and your involvement in the lifestyle. The
representative can answer most of your questions at that time
and will tell you a little more about the club.
If you're still interested in attending a party at BGS, after
verifying that both you and your partner are aware of the nature
of the club, a reservation will be made for you on the Friday or
Saturday night that you wish to attend. After you've made your
reservation, you will be given directions to the club.
When you arrive, you will give your first names to the staff
member at the door. You will be greeted by one of our staff
members and given a personal tour of the facilities at that
time. During this tour, you may ask any questions you may have.
Don't worry about sounding silly or being nervous, the staff
members at Bluegrass Secrets were once new and nervous too.
Don't feel embarrassed to ask any questions.
If you decide to join after the tour, you will be asked to read
and sign the membership agreement. Once you've done this, our
staff member will introduce you to some members of our Welcome
Committee and you will be on your way.
You will find that the club has a very low-pressure atmosphere.
Both long time members of the lifestyle and those who are merely
curious about it will feel comfortable. Each couple is free to
become as involved or uninvolved as they want. Everyone
understands that people have different levels of comfort. If you
just want to sit by yourselves and "people watch" or get out on
the dance floor and be the star, you are welcome to do that. If
someone sits down at your table with you or wants to dance with
you, you can do whatever makes you feel comfortable. It is
important to remember, that the overriding principle is always
"no means no."
Remember that everyone you see at the club was new there, like
you. The sooner you speak to other couples, the sooner you will
get to know people and the sooner they will get to know you. If
you feel shy or awkward about just walking up to someone you'd
like to meet, the staff or Welcome Committee members are always
happy to make introductions.
Bluegrass Secrets is designed for
committed and married couples. If you wish to bring friends that
are not on the invitation list with you, they must
first follow the steps for being invited.
Members are not allowed to bring un-screened
guest to the club.
To start the membership process, use one of these methods: